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Spice up your Vacation With Some Under the Radar Family Adventures in Cebu City

The province of Cebu is home to nearly 170 islands in addition to Cebu Island itself. It stands to reason, therefore,  that many visitors coming to Cebu with kids head straight for the cool waters and sandy beaches. In their rush to get their snorkel on, many families overlook Cebu City more fool them, as this well-developed city has a lot going for it from both a kiddy and a parental perspective. In addition to the usual high adrenaline water parks, modern malls with soft play centers, ornate temples and plenty of green spaces, this friendly city has some more satisfyingly off-the-beaten track sights and activities, where you’re unlikely to be battling for space with an army of backpackers and cruise ship tourists. Cebu City also lacks the rush and crush of Manila and some other big cities, making it an ideal point of entry for families looking to get gradually accustomed to South East Asian cities.

Take a Tour of the San Pedro Fort

This centrally-located fort in the city’s port area attracts little by the way of crowds, but kids tend to love rampaging around the ramparts, while the tropical gardens provide respite from the city swelter. Entrance is less than a dollar (and kids go free!) and it’s even possible to arrange personal guided tours (again, these are free – making this a very cheap and cheerful day out). Built in the mid-1500s to defend the city from attack  by seafaring Portuguese, and the fort’s more recent incarnations have included stints as a prison and as a zoo. Today it’s a low-key attraction, but all the more appealing for that – families in Cebu City can take a slow-paced tour and soak up the silence in the scenic gardens. The nearby Plaza de Independencia is a good place to let the kids race around as you watch local life unfurl.

Check out Weird and Wonderful Stalls at the Carbon Market

Cebu city has its fair share of smart, modern malls, with family-friendly food courts, and dedicated kids’ play areas. Which is all very nice and handy, but few families come to the Philippines to sit in a shopping center. Head instead to the waterfront Carbon Market instead, for an altogether more colorful shopping experience. The oldest and largest market in the city, this waterfront trading center has been doing business for well over a century (the name comes from the massive quantities of locally-mined coal that used to be bought and sold here back) is where locals come to pick up clothes, culinary staples and everything in between, all at bargain bucket prices. It’s something of a sensory overload – from the yelling traders to the smells and the somewhat ‘out there’ nature of some of the culinary wares – but it’s well worth setting aside a few hours to really get the most out of the market. Come early in the morning for the freshest produce at the best possible prices (you can even turn it into a game and challenge the kids to find their favorite fruit or other edible treat at the lowest price, or to seek out ultra-rare culinary goodies such as kesong puti (white cheese). It’s also a good place to pick up local handicrafts and other souvenirs (just don’t try to haggle too hard, prices are already low and most products are a result of a lot of hard work!). Like many busy downtown spots, take the usual safety precautions, but don’t let safety fears putting you off a trip to the Carbon Market when visiting Cebu with your kids.

Ride the Jeepneys

It’s impossible not to notice Cebu City’s jeepneys – those brightly-painted, jam-packed little buses that race their way through the city streets. But while they sure as heck look like fun to ride, they’re not about putting on a show for tourists – these are in fact by far the cheapest way to get around the city, and the public transport option of choice for most locals. Just one problem – working out how to use these blinged up vehicles m can be a bit of a mind-boggler. There are pretty much no ‘official’ jeepney stops other than the beginning and end of a line, so it’s fine to flag one down pretty much anywhere. Note down your intended destination, and show this to a friendly-looking face among the crowds that gather along major roads. Maybe best to aim for somewhere at the end of a route if it’s your first jeepney journey, and have emergency taxi fare in case it goes awry – the ride itself is a fun experience for families in Cebu. Show the driver where you want to get off (if you’re able to get close enough, otherwise show a fellow passenger), carry small change for your fare, and be prepared to shout or loudly clink coins on the handrail when you want to jump off 🙂 Get the hang of it, and you’ll be seeing the sights for an awful lot less than the price of a cab, and having fun into the bargain.

? Eat here:  Ga-as Adventure Cafe

This is definitely one aimed squarely at tourists, but it would be rude not to take your little adventurers to Ga-as Adventure Cafe, a kid-friendly paradise where diners can zip-line, rappel and trek their way to hearty appetite. Part of the Ga-As Eco Adventure Park, the Adventure Cafe is a destination in its own right, and there’s even a ‘stress wall’, where visitors are encouraged to throw plates at a wall and get those travel stresses right out of their system. It’s billed as the Philippines’ first Adventure-Themed restaurant, and while it’s a 35-45 minute ride out of town in Balamban, it’s worth a trip out, and  the menu has plenty of fairly-priced dishes that range from local favorites such as tinolang manok (a gingery chicken broth) to guaranteed kid-pleasers such as pasta, burgers and steaks.

Spice Up Your Family Vacation To The Philippines With Some off the Beaten Track Activities in Manila

Manila, Manila…the crazy capital of the Philippines sometimes gets a bad rep for its pollution, honking traffic and its reputation for petty crime. But while Manila is often seen as a mere starting point for beach-hopping fun, here’s a whole lot for families to love about the city. Once they’ve got to grips with the noise and the hectic pace of life, offspring of all ages are likely to fall in love with a city where they can learn trapeze skills, visit brightly colored theme parks and where marshmallows regularly crop up in salads. Older kids and teens will likely pile on the pressure for their parents to take them to brag-worthy mainstream attractions such as Splash Island waterpark, the kid-sized city that is Kidzania and the city’s several amusement parks, but parents looking for more satisfyingly under-the-radar family fun will find that Manila really delivers the goods. From hidden foodie adventures in Metro Manila itself to exciting escapades outside the city limits, these under-the-radar activities will add extra oomph to your family trip to Manila.

Explore Quiapo, Chinatown and the Muslim Quarter.

Many family visitors to Manila give the city’s somewhat down-at-heel historic downtown a miss, preferring instead to take the usual tourist route around Intramuros – the walled, Spanish-founded ‘city within a city’. But concerns about safety shouldn’t deter families in Manila from visiting Quiapo – while it’s wise to take the usual safety precautions (don’t flash expensive belongings, keep wallets in front pockets, keep kids close by…), there’s a whole lot of adventuring to be had in the maze of streets that make up the Old Town. There are several companies offering walking, shopping and tasting tours of Quiapo, but intrepid visitors can certainly go it alone – along with the near-obligatory visit to the Black Nazarene statue, said to have miraculous healing powers, there are heaving produce markets, street food galore, and endless opportunities for all members of the family to practice their haggling skills, pick up all manner of ‘magical’ potions, and even have their fortunes told. Look out for the Ocampo Pagoda – a castle/pagoda hybrid that looks like something from a Studio Ghibli film.   Families can continue their cross-cultural explorations by crossing the Quezon Bridge to the Muslim Quarter, notable for its grand Golden Mosque, and the crowds of locals that come here to pick up keepsakes. Meanwhile, the city’s busy Chinatown, between Binondo and Santa Cruz, is the oldest in the world, and the place to come for delicious dumplings, sticky rice and ‘pork floss’, as well as posing by the grand arch that marks the entrance to the district.


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See the City from the Water on the Pasig River Ferry

It’s impossible not to be struck by the scale of the traffic chaos in Manila. Bottlenecks make getting from A to B a time-consuming affair, and the choking fumes are an unfortunate part of life in the city. One way to skip the backed-up traffic and get an alternative view of the city is to take the Pasig River Ferry, which carries a mainly local crowd of commuters from Pasig to Intramuros. Making a total of 12 stops,  Pasig River Ferry Service is the only water-based transportation in Metro Manila that cruises Pasig to Intramuros in the City of Manila, taking in sights such as the grand Presidential Palace (no photos!) and offering a chance to jump on and off at the 12 stops, along the route, neatly dodging the traffic. The trip costs around a dollar, and it’s both a fun boat trip and a practical way to get around.

Go Shopping at Greenhills

Forget the slick, modern malls, and do your souvenir shopping at this vast network of indoor and outdoor markets and boutiques, Brush up on your haggling skills (it’s not unreasonable to expect vendors to drop their original price by up to 50 per cent) and set aside the best part of a day to fully explore the flea-market style, 1970s-built Greenhills Shopping Center, which is easily reached by metro, and buzzes with sellers hawking everything from knock-off designer label fashions and genuinely bargainous phones and gadgets, to artsy knick knacks, gourmet goodies and local handicrafts. It’s also the place to come for genuine pearls, if that’s your bag (it’s also the place to come for bags…). Stalls and cafes selling easy eats such as burgers and donuts will keep kids’ energy levels up.

? Eat at a Dog Cafe

Taiwan gave the world the concept of the Cat Cafe, but Manila has upped the ante with its kid-pleasing Dog Cafes, where diners can pet and pat friendly pooches as they sip chow down on burgers and slurp up coffees and milkshakes. The original Manila Dog Cafe, Barkin’ Blends, has a dedicated, santized ‘Dog Zone’, where visitors can spend up to two hours cuddling (but strictly no carrying!) their new furry pals. The kid-pleasing menu includes brightly-hued burgers (the Fiona Burger comes on a pink bun) and Skyeghetti (presumably named for canine superheroine Skye from Paw Patrol) with meatballs. Dog-loving diners can relax in the knowledge that the four-legged friends here are treated with kindness, and strict rules ensure that the visits are as much fun for the hounds as they are for hungry clients.

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Spice up your trip with some of the lesser known attractions X’ian hasto offer especially for families

Two words: Terracotta Army. If you and your adventure-loving brood are heading to Xi’An, China, you’re going to be hearing an awful lot about these world-famous soldiers. But while it would be a crying shame not to take the kids to see the awe-inspiring army during your family visit to Xi’An, there’s a lot more to do in this ancient city besides this near-obligatory port of call. Happily for families who like to avoid the hordes and soak up some real local flavor on their travels, Xi’An is still under-explored among foreign visitors, and chances of seeing big lines anywhere other than at the Terracotta Warriors exhibit is pretty minimal.  While many visitors make a brief stop here as part of a quick-fire sightseeing tour of China, families who linger longer will find a whole host of kid-pleasing activities that don’t feel like they’ve been designed for the benefit of tourists. Steeped in thousands of years of history and a former capital with a key location on the Silk Road, Xi’An has museums and ancient buildings galore, but if that’s unlikely to stir up much enthusiasm among the kids, read on for some alternative things to do in Xi’an.

Peek at Excavation Efforts in a Mammoth Mausoleum

The crowds that flock to see the life-size soldiers of the Terracotta Army are conspicuous by their absence at  Hanyang Tomb , Xi’An’s ‘other’ underground museum, but it’s a mini-kingdom unto itself, filled with clay animals and human figures and arguably made all the more appealing by the tiny numbers of people that visit. Located in a somewhat out-of-town location around 20 km from the city proper (it’s served by infrequent local buses,  take a fixed-price cab if time is of the essence), it’s a little off-track for most tourists, but certainly worth taking the time to visit.

Occupying almost 5 hectares, the mausoleum serves as the joint tomb of Western Han Dynasty emperor Liu Qi and his beloved Empress Wang, and was built in the year 153 – a mere couple of millennia later, it opened as a museum in 2006.

Visitors to the underground museum can walk on glass floors to peek into pits and see what the extensive ongoing excavation works have uncovered over the years – all manner of tools, religious artefacts and artworks among them. Signs in English explain what’s going on in each of the pits, which takes the guesswork out of things for parents of kids with plenty of questions.

Eat Your Way Around the Muslim Quarter

There’s no shortage of places to eat delicious Chinese food in Xi’An, but for the most weird and wonderful concoctions in town, head to the Muslim Quarter. You’ll feel like you’ve briefly left China as you wander through this busy (keep a tight hold on belongings and, indeed, offspring) network of streets. While the main drag is packed with tourists and vendors yelling about their wonderful wares, taking the time to properly explore pays kid-pleasing dividends in the form of shadow puppet shows, a vast, fragrant flower market, and all manner of edible goodies, from candied ginger, intricate sugar creations and fruit leather to cuttlefish on a stick. Visitors can pay a minimal entrance fee to enter the area’s grand mosque, too.

Visit a Cave Village (and even stay in a cave!)

Shaanxi Province is home to any number of simple cave dwellings, known as yaodongs. These simple earth structures keep things cool in summer and warm in winter, and can often be found grouped together in small villages, offering an insight into traditional forms of housing in this central region of China. Heading out on the main highway from central Xi’An to the Terracotta Army site, families visiting Xi’An can take a detour to visit these ‘farmers’ caves’ – it’s easy enough to do this independently, but going with a recommended local guide may provide more insight for those that aren’t proficient in the local lingo. Should that pique your kids’ curiosity, it’s even possible to spend the night in a Yaodong.

? Get an Unusual Ice Cream Fix

There are times when only an ice cream is going to revive kids’ flagging travel spirit, and luckily Xi’An has a whole lot of them. One of the best spots for kids to get a sugar rush with local flavour is Shaanxi 13, by the bell tower at 270 Bei Yuan Men, where flavors such as Hanzhoung Peanut and Fresh Tofu are surprisingly moreish (no need to tell the kids you’re sneaking a bit of protein into their sweet treats)

Spice up your family trip to Hong Kong with these off-the-beaten-path activities!

Frenetic, fast-paced and full of hills… Hong Kong isn’t usually the first destination that springs to mind when planning a family trip, but this bustling modern city actually has a whole lot of kid-pleasing sights and activities to offer. And while the kids will undoubtedly owe you a debt of gratitude if you take them to Hong Kong Disneyland, there’s a lot more to family holidays in Hong Kong than rollercoasters and water parks. Sightseeing with kids in Hong Kong can be a challenge due to the terrain, the jam-packed sidewalks (this is not a stroller-friendly place) and the summer humidity, but it’s easy to escape the city swelter. Nearby lie beaches and inviting trails, while the sheer number of museums and galleries in the city itself mean there’s always a chance to give the kids a good dose of culture. The obvious kid-pleasers (there are several theme parks here in addition to Disneyland) are unlikely to thrill parents looking for an off-the-beaten-path experience, but it’s more than possible to spice up your family trip to Hong Kong with some lesser-known sites and activities that should linger long in the memory banks.

 

Hike the Dragon’s Back at Dawn

Set the alarm early to get the trails to yourself, and put those little legs to the test on this manageable hike! This trek combines scrambly hills and trickling streams with glorious views of the South China Sea before winding up on a beach. This jaunt will take around 2 hours (add more time for a short-legged members of the party, who can be strapped into a sling or baby backpack) and pack a picnic to make it feel like a fun adventure rather than a test of physical strength. Lots of hikers head here at weekends, but active families in Hong Kong can beat the crowds by making the trek mid-week, and by setting off early. If the kids are up for early-morning adventuring, grab a coffee and go before sunrise, for some incredible photo opportunities as the sun comes up. Drive or take a cab to Shek O Road, some 20 minutes from downtown and the starting point for this hike. With almost 40 percent of the land surrounding Hong Kong classified as Country Park, this is just one of the treks that families can embark on, and it’s arguably the one with most appeal to kids. The promise of ending up at the aptly-named Big Wave Bay should be an incentive, and the mere mention of dragons makes it sound exciting to younger travelers. Don’t forget to bring plenty of water!

 

Find Pristine Beaches at Lantau Island

The largest of Hong Kong’s islands, Lantau is a popular destination for daytrippers, but while there are big beach crowds on the sandy strands at Silverline Bay, visitors looking for more elbow room on the beach can find blissful solitude at the farther-flung Cheung Sha Beaches, which stretch for miles against a mountainous backdrop. To get here, families disembarking the ferry from Central Pier 5 to Mui Wo can jump on a local bus (numbers 1-4 run out to Cheung Sha), leaving the hordes behind.

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Explore Waterfalls at Tai Long Wan

The skyscrapers and rushing commuters of Hong Kong island will feel a world away as you clamber over rocks to cooling pools and crashing waterfalls before topping up your vitamin D levels on a near-deserted beach. Located on the eastern coast of the Sai Kung Peninsula, it’s no breeze to reach, but a manageable day trip for adventurous families in Hong Kong, and one which more than merits the effort. A combination of buses and/or taxis (budget-pleasingly affordable in Hong Kong) will take you to Sai Wan Lan Pavilion, the starting point for well-marked trails to the first of several beaches. Bring tons of water and wear comfy shoes to navigate the beaches and, after chilling on the sands for a while, continue the trail for another 15 minutes or so to reach hidden rock pools and waterfalls. Brave souls can dive in from a number of natural platforms! Some of the beaches at Tai Long Wan are windswept spots popular with surfers, and others offer tame waters that are ideal for young swimmers. A couple of small restaurants offer fuel for watery adventures (and the return trip home!).

 

Eat This: Character Dim Sum

Oh yes. Dim sum with cartoon faces on them, or fashioned into cute animal shapes. If there’s a better way to convince little ones to try the local cuisine, I don’t know what it is! Cute character dim sum is very much a thing in Hong Kong, with several family-friendly spots on the island offering these goodies that look (almost) too good to eat. The most famous place to indulge is Dim Sum Icon, where diners can chow down on Spongebob Squarepants’ bright yellow face, should they so choose, but a more palatable option for grown up diners is Yum Cha (branches in Central and Tsim Sha Tsui), a very family friendly space that prides itself on its signature piggy-shaped dumplings as well as its no-MSG policy.

 

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Spice up your family trip to Beijing with these off-the-beaten-path activities!

Packed with parks, theaters, cute cafés and museums, China’s big, bright and bustling capital is a top destination for families with a taste for culture or an appetite for adventureBut while there’s no denying the fun factor at Beijing’s big ticket amusement parks or the thrill of scaling a section of the Great Wall, families in Beijing are likely to find themselves jostling for elbow room and spending a lot of time waiting in line at the city’s biggest kid-friendly attractions. For more intrepid families visiting the Chinese metropolis, there are still plenty of under-the-radar experiences just waiting to be discovered! You might need to brush up on your Chinese, as you’re unlikely to hear much English spoken at these off-the-tourist track spots.

 

Get the Lay of the Land by Taking a Peek at Beijing in Miniature

At the Beijing Planning Exhibition Hall, mere steps from the tourist-packed Tiananmen Square, is a crowd-free spot where visitors can check out a teeny version of Beijing. A true-to-scale model of the entire metropolitan area is a fun way for families to get their bearings and check out the lay of the land–kids can try to spot their hotel among the landmarks. Visitors can see the entire city, the surrounding countryside and the magnificent Great Wall, and it’s a great way to plan how to get around the city. As well as the vast model of the city, visitors can check out interactive displays and interesting videos about Beijing’s past, present and future. The air-conditioning makes it well worth it, just to escape the swelter of the streets on a hot day!

 

Ready, Set, Ski!

Yes, you can ski in Beijing–or at least in the surrounding area. Families visiting Beijing in the winter can find slopes just 30-minutes’ drive from the city proper at Nanshen Ski Village. It’s not really known among foreign visitors to the city, but is in fact one of the best-equipped and most modern ski resorts in China. The area hosts dozens of runs for all abilities, as well as a kids’ play area and a snowboard park. Do you have nature-loving kids in tow? Check out these tips for nature-loving families in China!

 

Find a Hidden Cat Café

Coffee, cakes, cocktails…and cats. Cats, cats, cats! Beijing has caught on on to the Taiwanese trend for cafés that allow a cat-loving clientele to cuddle new-found furry friends as they nibble and sip their way through the menu. Cat cafés are increasingly popular in the Chinese capital, and while many are busy spots where you’ll need to battle your way through crowds of tourists to get a seat, others are hidden away in unassuming hutong (narrow street or alley) neighborhoods. One such spot is Cats44, where feline-loving families can pet rescue kitties, and kids can sit at special child-sized tables. It’s easy to miss this somewhat hidden spot, tucked away on a rather down-at-heel courtyard, but families in Beijing will find it well-worth seeking out for the delicious cat-shaped cakes and other yummy treats.

 

Get Buzzing at a Bee Museum

Beijing’s Botanical Garden is firmly established on the city’s tourist trail, but few visitors take the time to visit the somewhat hidden Bee Museum, a sweet little spot that will satisfy little visitors with a hankering for honey. Most of the information is in Mandarin, but the working bee hives and exhibitions of bee keeping gear need little translation. Visitors can discover all about honeybee habits and habitats, and even pick up jars of the golden goop to take away.

 

Explore Old Beijing

While much of Beijing has been modernized and gentrified (find tips to see the new luxurious side of China here), the real spirit of the city is best explored in the traditional hutong neighborhoods. These maze-like networks of ramshackle alleyways and courtyards are home to cafés, curiosity shops and clothing stores, and visitors can even visit family homes to try their hand at dumpling-making. To find a cooking class, be sure to plan in advance–don’t just knock on a door and expect people to throw open their kitchens! Another fun hutong experience for families in Beijing is to try a calligraphy class: kids will learn how to write their names in Chinese characters.

 

Eat This: Scorpions on a Stick

Adventurous eaters in Beijing may thrill at the site of fried scorpions on a stick, at such foodie hotspots as the famous Wangfujing Street in central Beijing. All manner of crawling, slithering and flying beasties are available as crunchy, protein-packed snacks, and even those who haven’t got the stomach to eat a roasted giant centipede will likely relish the spectacle. Candied fruits and savory dumplings are among the more kiddie-friendly street snacks on offer. If you’re looking for even more adventurous fun for your family’s trip to China, find more ideas here!

 

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Spice up your family trip to Chengdu with these under-the-radar activities!

Pandas, pandas, pandas, pandas! Did we mention pandas? It’s impossible to mention the busy city of Chengdu, located in Sichuan province, without hearing the “p-word” on repeat. Somewhat unknown among foreign tourists (especially in comparison to Beijing and Shanghai), when Chengdu does get a mention outside China, it’s usually in relation to the giant black-and-white cuties who have been living here for a lot longer than the human inhabitants. A number of high-profile panda breeding and rehabilitation centers are the main attraction for families in Chengdu, but there’s an awful lot to do in this friendly city other than pat the pandas. Most visitors make a beeline for the Chengdu Research Base for Giant Panda Breeding, which results in minimal queues and crowds elsewhere. As is often the case in under-the-radar Chinese cities, Caucasian kids are something of a novelty and may get something of a rockstar reception. Those with light-haired kids shouldn’t feel offended if locals for photos with the kiddos–it’s just friendly curiosity.

 

Get a Taste for Tibet

With opportunities to reach Tibet by plane, train, or car from Chengdu, this city is a gateway to that mysterious mountain region. Arranging visas to Tibet can be a major hassle, but families in Chengdu can almost feel as though they’ve entered Tibetan territory without leaving Sichuan. Chengdu’s Tibetan Quarter, which spans several streets close to Wohou Temple in the south-west of the city, is the place to barter for Tibetan arts and crafts, and tuck into traditional dishes like yak meat and yak butter tea. Home to one of the largest Tibetan settlements outside Tibet itself, this colorful corner of the city is notable for the large numbers of maroon-robed Buddhist monks that stroll around its rather ramshackle lanes, and it all feels intriguingly at odds with the chain coffee stores and high rise hotels that are cropping up elsewhere in modern Chengdu.

 

Visit the Wenshu Yuan Monastery

Wenshu Monastery itself can hardly be considered off-the-beaten-track (pandas aside, it’s one of Chengdu’s most popular attractions), but you and your brood can still experience the grounds the local way, rather than following the group tours. It’s a working monastery home to some 80 Buddhist monks, many of whom can be spotted playing sports in the vast grounds. Kids are unlikely to get bored in the 13 acres of gardens, but you can make things extra interesting by challenging them to spot some of the treasures dotted around the complex, including Liang Dynasty (502-587 CE) stone inscriptions; 300 Buddha statues made from mud, stone, and iron; and a jade Buddha thought to have been carried from Myanmar on foot by a particularly hardy monk. Locals and tourists rub shoulders at the on-site tea rooms and the vegetarian café, while a number of simple spots nearby sell tasty noodles and other easy eats for kids.

 

Take a Side Trip to a Historic Town

The countryside surrounding Chengdu is home to dozens of tiny Tibetan villages and historic Chinese towns, many of which make an easy independent day trip from the city. Frequent buses serve many of the routes to these towns, with one notable example being Huang Long Xi Ancient Town. Some 30 miles southeast of Chengdu, in Shuangli County, this fascinating town has a history stretching back more than 1,700 years. It’s become known locally not only for its three magnificent temples, but also for its super-abundant tea houses–bamboo tables and chairs placed along the riverfront are cheap and cheerful spots to take the weight off and refuel. Take the kids to see the giant watermill by the river, and the 1,000-year-old banyan trees, whose giant gnarled roots are the subject of many local legends.  

 

Hotpot Hotspot

Chengdu is almost as famous for its hotpot fare as it is for its pandas. While much of the bubbling stuff served in the city is too spicy for most kids’ palates, there are some tamer versions that may well whet their appetites for the city’s favorite dish. While there are hotpot restaurants across the city, it’s worth making sure you go to a goodie. The huge lines of locals that form outside Shu JiuXiang are a good indicator of its quality, and with diners able to choose their spice levels (as well as the fact that the cooking pot is shaped like a dragon’s head) this is a popular choice for families. If that’s still too much like hot stuff, promise kids a visit to one of Chengdu’s now-ubiquitous ice cream and frozen yogurt shops to cool their tongues down after dinner.

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And when we dragged ourselves through the doors of our Kathmandu hotel, I knew we had made it. We did it. A 28-hour journey between airports, lost luggage, security checks, visas, and one shower. I was so proud of the kids and I…

It’s true that when you cross borders with your family, there’s a feeling that the only aspects worth preparing for involve immigration control, visas, and flight confirmations. But this time, I don’t mean those kinds of details. This time, I’m talking about limits of a different sort, those who have nothing to do with the word “visa.” What about the inner limits? The emotional, mental, and physical limits we all have? Surely, they are just as important.

Before this latest journey to Kathmandu, I was under extreme stress. I had no idea how I was going to manage the impending challenge. How could I possibly handle a journey that starts in Israel, continues to Jordan, and then onward to India, where we will have to wait 12 hours without any visa for the flight to Nepal? Alone, the journey would be arduous enough, but traveling with three kids poses an entirely new set of challenges. I knew the process would take well over 24 hours, and I knew I wouldn’t get a chance to sleep. I also knew that I had no Indian visa, and that the immigration officers would probably create a nightmare for us because of that problem. My close friends and family reassured me. “Don’t worry, it’ll be fine,” they coaxed, although these empty reassurances only made me more anxious. Of course you can say “It’ll be fine!” if you don’t have to go through it! Had I gone too far this time? Had I taken a chance that would prove to be a huge mistake? Had I finally embarked on a journey that I could not safely enjoy with my children? What exactly was I capable of as a mother?

After successfully navigating over 7 years of traveling, I can say with certainty that one of the most important parameters to consider is exactly that: know your limits, whether they are emotional, mental, or physical. In a strange country, with its own laws, language, and unique culture, don’t bite off more than you can chew. Ever. Here are some ideas to think about before you embark on international family travel:

 

1. Do your homework!

Before settling on where you’re going to go, check the weather, health hazards, available healthcare, altitude, sanitation, and most especially the water quality for your top destination choices. How do you and your loved ones fare in cold weather? Humidity? Are there health conditions to be considered? Any germaphobes? Everyone needs to understand and be prepared to accept the differences in cleanliness standards from your home country versus your destination. Preparing for these aspects of travel will expand your hygiene limits!

 

2. Check personal safety levels.

Can you walk around without having to worry about being pick-pocketed or assaulted in other ways? What are the tourist crime rates like? Is there an organized tourist police association? Do you have proper insurance? Make sure you have fall-back plans in case your valuables are stolen, and then at least you can rest easy if you experience crime. Give everyone a copy of emergency phone numbers and e-mail addresses. Mentally prepare yourselves and your children for these contingencies.

 

3. Think about transportation options.

What is the best way for your family to travel? Do your young children need carseats? Do you need a personal driver? Are the kids old enough to handle long, cross-country, bumpy bus rides with unreliable bathroom breaks? What do you need for your brood to be most comfortable during these journeys? Don’t sign up for a bus journey when a flight would quell the concerns of some anxious travelers, and don’t book a flight when a bus ride will keep you within your limited budget. Balance your priorities.

 

4. Communicate with locals.

How many people speak English in the areas you would like your family to visit? Can you or your children learn language basics for your trip to make the visit more seamless? What areas of your destination country offer English speakers? It’s always critical to be able to communicate in some way, especially if you are in need of directions, a restaurant suggestion, or directions to a bathroom. Know what you need to be able to communicate once you arrive.

 

5. Seek advice.

Take advantage of those who have already visited your country of choice! Even if you know someone who has traveled in the country solo or as a couple, he or she certainly has advice or answers regarding your upcoming visit. Does anyone know people where you are going who might welcome guests (have them write down phone numbers!)? Where are the best hidden spots? Places to avoid? Bargain eateries? Even ask those “stupid” questions–don’t be shy! Ask about aspects you are concerned about and see how best to address these issues.

 

6. Ensure a comfortable landing!

Book lodging online at a decent, well-known hotel for the first night or two. That way you can get a first impression of the country from a cozy vantage point and make plans based on what you hear from hotel staff or fellow travelers. In addition, your family will be able to recover from jet-lag and get some good rest before setting into your international venture. Don’t push your limits even more after a tough journey to your destination!

 

7. Be flexible.

Stay flexible emotionally, mentally, and physically. Don’t worry if things don’t go exactly according to plan! Give it a minute, breathe, and check what your best options are. It’s almost never catastrophic, just a part of the trip that you have to get through. Invite a sense of adventure into your traveling, as plans will inevitably change. Celebrate a delayed train with an extra ice-cream run, and calm upset stomachs with another night in a comfy hotel. Take small steps. And even try to have a bit of fun!  I cannot stress this enough: F-L-E-X-I-B-I-L-I-T-Y. That’s the key to pushing through the boundaries you thought you had!

 

8. Choose appropriate activities.

So one kid wants to bungee jump, another wants to take a cooking class, and another is battling an upset stomach. Anticipate the differences in your children’s preferences and prepare for disagreements about how to spend time abroad. No matter what, don’t put yourself or your family in situations that make you feel unsafe. Does your bungee guide seem out of it? Does your driver seem knowledgeable? Don’t rush to remote villages if it terrifies you, and don’t climb high mountains unless you’re sure you are confident to handle any problem that occurs on the way. Don’t put yourself in places where your own insecurity has you cornered. Know yourself and keep your strengths close to your heart, all the while accepting your weaknesses as part of the package. Remember all the reasons you decided to travel with your family in the first place. Then decide your true limits!

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Everyone knows that traveling can be complicated and expensive. Moving to and settling into a foreign country can often soak up a big portion of your budget. In an ideal world, I would sit and prepare each destination thoroughly–I would apply for visas, have passports at the ready, obtain foreign currency, research where to sleep, check bus schedules, purchase flights, brush up on sanitation standards, make a list of important contacts, pack all the essentials, talk to the kids about street smarts, plan activities for the kids, buy travel insurance, stock up on medicines, and more, and more… But with kids, things never happen the way you imagine they will. A week before setting off, one of them wakes up with a fever or a rash. Or you get a phone call that ruins everything. Or one of the kids has a birthday two days before the flight. Or the weather decides to mess with you. Suddenly, the fantasy of quiet and peaceful preparations evaporates.

The last few days before embarking on your family’s journey will challenge the nerves and patience of the whole brood… or maybe it’s just us! In any case, my advice would be to take under consideration that there will be complications and prepare (and react) accordingly.

 

1. Plan in advance!

Make up your mind about your destination a long time in advance. Do your homework and check everything you need with plenty of time left. Don’t wait for the last moment (and I say this from experience… I have never once decided my next destination with enough time left! I make decisions three days before my visa runs out, and I usually get lucky). A lot of times, you have to be careful when managing your time. If you have to apply for visa in advance, how long does it take for the document to process? Sometimes you have to show a flight ticket out of the country at immigration, or there are other details you need to know. What about your budget? The first few days in any new place are not easy, and they will always cost more money. Make sure you have done your research.

 

2. Return to your favorite places.

As your family begins to travel, there will be certain restaurants, hotels, cities, and entire countries you’ll connect with. Strengthening these bonds will further your family’s establishment as global citizens. Returning to a loved location, where I already know the cost of a taxi from the airport, where to sleep for the first few nights, and get coffee in the morning, is a relief and a joy. That’s why I prefer to include some places we are familiar with in our itinerary.

 

3. Prepare and take care of your bodies.

A few days before you relocate, make sure you eat nutritious meals! Take special care that you’re eating things that help the body make serotonin, which has a calming effect. Because relocating creates temporary unbalance, consider the chances of illness, allergies, and emotional sensitivity increasing. It’s vital that you watch yourself and your energy levels. From the parent’s perspective, settling into a new country doesn’t end when the luggage arrive at baggage claim–it ends when your lifestyles are comfortable. Never forget about jet-lag, even when the time difference is negligible. Until then, just try to establish regular sleeping hours and meals.

 

4. Take your time.

When I get to a new place, I don’t explore everything as soon as possible. I take my time. First, I dedicate two or three days to physical and mental recovery. I hang near my house, discover the neighborhood slowly, and let the kids get used to the surroundings. Traveling long-term is different to a short vacation, because you have the luxury to blend in slowly. Take in the atmosphere and settle in at your own pace.

 

5. Celebrate your accomplishments!

Relocating challenges your abilities as families and individuals. Recognize the strides each member of the family makes as travelers. When I look at my kids and see how the handle themselves in the busy streets of Manila, Kathmandu, or Saigon a day after we landed there, ready to explore and experience and taste without batting an eyebrow, I understand just how traveling is a wonderful gift I am sharing with them.


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Spice up your family trip to Shanghai with these under-the-radar activities!

International visitors to China tend to shy away from Shanghai, perhaps scared off by its sheer size and scale. The 2016 opening of Shanghai Disney did a good job of putting the city on the map as a family destination, but it’s still rare to see Shanghai cropping up on any lists of top spots for family vacays. That doesn’t guarantee a crowd-free experience, as the big attractions are usually heaving with Chinese tourists. Leaving obvious examples such as the zoo and Disney aside, though, Shanghai actually has a whole lot to offer visitors with kids.  And while younger visitors’ patience may run dry at the thought of being dragged around one more temple or garden, our guide to the best off-the-beaten-track sights and attractions in Shanghai shows there’s more to this mega-city than shiny skyscrapers and Frozen-themed roller coasters.

 

Go See Some Art

Visitors to Shanghai would never spot this museum if they didn’t know it was there, but the prosaically-named Shanghai Propaganda Poster Art Center is one of the most fascinating spots in the city for anyone with an interest in China’s recent history. The kids may baulk at the idea of visiting a museum all about posters, but telling kids that this is a “secret gallery” may boost their interest.  It certainly looks the part–visitors will descend to the basement of an unmarked and outwardly unremarkable tower blocks, which houses a collection of some 5,000 propaganda posters. These posters were all painstakingly collected from across the country, spanning the years from the late 1940s to the 1970s. English-language tags explain the meaning behind each of the images, entrance is less than $5 USD, and a gift shop sells affordable replicas of the most iconic posters.  If that whets your appetite for quirky culture, it’s worth noting that Shanghai’s other under-the-radar museums include ones dedicated to chopsticks, typewriters, and Jackie Chan. Something that might better appeal to kids and teens is the Shanghai Animation and Comics Museum.

 

Enjoy the Island Life

A drive over the Yangtze via one of China’s longest bridges takes families in China to what feels like another world entirely. Gone are the smog and the skyscrapers! At Chongming Islandthere are protected wetlands and forests, bird sanctuaries and eco-farms, and an impressive Confucian temple. There’s also an intriguing cultural calendar with highlights including an annual Hairy Crab festival, when visitors can chow down on one of the region’s biggest culinary delicacies. Although there are some high-end hotels (need some ideas for luxurious travel in China?) at the eastern side of the island, elsewhere there is ample opportunity for off-grid adventures, farm visits and general romping around.

 

See World Class Acrobatics

Ok, it’s hardly a low-key experience, but the edge-of-town location means that the mega-budget Shanghai Circus World  often falls off the to-do list for families visiting Shanghai. There are several kid-pleasing shows to catch, but by far the most astonishing is ERA-Intersection of Time, where families can watch incredibly talented acrobats perform all manner of gravity-defying flips, twists and balances set against dazzling light displays. The visual nature of the show neatly removes any possible language barriers, and vendors sell cheap-and-cheerful glowing wands, much to children’s delight. Located in Zhabei District, Shanghai Circus World has its own metro station, so it’s not strictly necessary to go as part of a tour or with a private driver. Haven’t gotten your fill of adventurous Chinese activities? Check out our article on crazy family outings in China!

 

Eat, Drink, and Be Happy

Travel-frazzled parents can lower their stress levels/check emails/sip a strong drink at PonPon Kids Cafe in the somewhat fancy Gubei District. It might not be cheap, but mums and dads may actually get to finish a meal, as kids busy themselves at a tree-house style book corner, play in the sandpit or create their own culinary magic at a mockup miniature kitchen. The usual easy eats such as sandwiches, pasta, cakes and pastries keep energy levels from flagging.

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Experience traditional Indian activities with your family!

Traveling to India can be an overwhelmingly powerful experience chock-full of dichotomies. The country is known for both its ancient mystical traditions and burgeoning tech scene; breathtaking natural beauty and foul pollution; lavish metropoles and heartbreaking slums. Families that choose India as a destination must venture into the country with a flexible and positive attitude: expect delayed trains, heart-rending beggars, and at least one bout of “Delhi belly.” If you can stomach it, your loved ones will be met with over a million square miles of magnificent scenery, jovial locals, some of the oldest traditions on Earth, and mouthwatering cuisine.

 

Cooking Class

While you are in India, it is imperative that your family indulges in a plethora of Indian fare, as it is indescribably delicious and undoubtedly much cheaper than any Indian eatery you have at home. Try scrumptious meals like channa masala (curried chickpeas), saag paneer (stewed spinach with fresh cheese), and the classic, kid-friendly tikka masala (veggies with a scrumptious tomato and onion sauce). Better yet, take the chance to learn how to craft these concoctions so you can create these dishes at home! Take a cooking class with your family in India and learn the secrets of this famous cuisine from the locals.

Where to go:

Delhi: Spend an afternoon with your brood concocting Northern and Southern Indian cuisine, desserts, and non-vegetarian dishes with Nitin’s Cookery Classes in the capital. As with most cooking classes, you choose the dishes you want to learn about, so have the kids come prepared with ideas for meals they love. This experience is especially suited for families because the classes are offered inside Nitin’s own family home. Email Nitin to set up a private class for about $24 USD per adult.

Dharamsala: Try cooking classes at Bhimsen, which operates out of one of the guest houses lining the main drag of McLeod Ganj. For about $7 USD per person, you can choose two dishes your family would like to create from their menu, and then spend the afternoon cooking with the operation’s chef. Then enjoy your hand-crafted meals! Don’t forget to bring a pad of paper, as you’ll need to take notes during your culinary training. If you’re feeling inspired after crafting your own Indian fare, look for a mo-mo (Tibetan dumpling) cooking class!

 

Saree and Kurta Shopping

One of the most iconic aspects in India is the vibrant dress. Women and men alike don bright orange, crimson, and deep azure clothes often elaborately embroidered with golden thread or glittery beads. Sarees, originating around 1800 BCE in northern India, include an undershirt and a long swath of wide fabric which is draped around a woman’s body. Men can often be found wearing kurtas (this style is popular with women as well), comprised of a long tunic worn over loose pants. Sarees and kurtas will be a cherished souvenir even if your children don’t intend to wear these clothes on a daily basis. Part of the fun of finding this traditional garb is navigating the narrow, tilted alleys, peering in shops, and meeting clothing purveyors. Photograph your kids donning their new digs and your family will have one unique holiday card!

Where to go:

Delhi: Chandni Chowk doesn’t just offer sarees and kurtas—it is also an area of Old Delhi that is exciting to explore. Drop into different shops to try on Indian dress and admire elaborate bridal jewelry. Always bargain first if you intend to buy anything—you can find sarees for as little as $10 USD if you are a skilled barterer!

Varanasi: Sarees made in Varanasi are some of those most famous because of their quality. Some can be on the more expensive side, but there is always room for window shopping! Expect to pay around $30 USD for an average-quality saree here (or settle for a knock-off).

 

Jalebis

It is impossible to write an article about traveling with children without including some sort of sweet delicacy to try! Luckily, delicious jalebis are a cornerstone of Indian tradition, and are a most pervasive find throughout the country. Jalebis are made from a sweet dough that is squeezed into a spiraled shape and deep-fried—essentially an Indian doughnut. Not sweet enough? Ask for syrup to dip your jalebi in! After a long day in the Indian sun and jostling pedi-cabs, reward your family with one (or many!) jalebis. These snacks cost as little as $.75 USD/kg, so stock up. Hunt for ones being freshly prepared for the most delectable jalebi experience.

Where to go:

Delhi: Once your children get a taste of jalebis, they’ll insist on finding them wherever they go. Follow your nose to Chandni Chowk, which has some famous jalebi spots (so if you’re exploring that region for saree shopping, you can fuel up with many a sweet treat there!). Chandni Chowk metro will land your family right in the middle of both saree shops and jalebi outposts.

Agra: You will probably make a stop in Agra to see the Taj Mahal, but did you know that Agra is also known for its unique jalebi flavors? Explore the alleys of Agra after your visit to the Taj Mahal so your children can taste-test different jalebis.

 

Henna

Henna, also called mehndi, is another distinct Indian tradition originating over a thousand years ago. Mendhi is a dark paste made from henna leaves mixed with oils, which is applied to one’s skin in detailed floral and paisley shapes as a temporary tattoo. Henna is usually painted on women and men alike for wedding ceremonies and important festivals like Diwali, the Festival of Lights. Men (especially from the Rajasthan region) will get henna tattoos as well, usually on their chest, shoulders, and back. These designs will last anywhere from 1-3 weeks, so let your children experiment with different designs they enjoy and take part in this unique, time-honored Indian tradition.

Where to go:

Delhi: Venture to Connaught Place, near Hanuman Temple, where henna artists are known to blanket the streets. Let your kids choose a design they like from the artist’s binder, and pay no more than $6 USD for inking both hands. Always, always, always barter! Apply oils to the mehndi to make it last longer. Your family can also find artists in most beauty parlors if you want to avoid seeking the designs from streetside stalls. Either way, marvel at the expertise of mehndi artists—the speed and skill of these craftspeople is incredible. Designs placed on the palm of your hands will last the longest.

 

Burial Rites

Open-air cremations are one of the somber traditions practiced in Hindu culture, but if your brood is mature enough to handle them, they can be an eye-opening and powerful experience. According to Hindu beliefs, people must be cremated as soon as possible after death to prevent the body from obtaining additional impurities. The only people who are not cremated are holy people and young children, as they are without sin and do not require the purification ritual of creation post-mortem. Viewing a cremation is only suited for older or more mature children, for whom it can be life-changing experience. Even if you are not planning on teaching your family about these sacred burial rites, places like the Ganges River offer a wealth of other cultural experiences, like ritual bathing, evening ceremonies (aarti) and marigold offerings. The wealth of temples along the Ganges also offers opportunities to learn about Hinduism without viewing cremations.

Where to go:

Varanasi: Varanasi is the holiest city in India according to Hindus, which is why so many devotees wish to be cremated there. Take your family to the ghats (rock slabs) on the Ganges, the holiest river in India, to view cremations. Watch priests from the highest Brahman caste place boughs of sandalwood and wreaths of marigolds on the deceased. Around 80 people are cremated in Varanasi every day.

Rishikesh: Also situated on the banks of the Ganges, Rishikesh is another holy city where you can take your children to learn about Hindu cremation practices. Visit Shamshan Ghat, where there are eco-friendly cremation practices developing along the riverbanks. Efforts include utilizing less wood and diverting ash from entering the Ganges.

 

The Life of the Buddha

India is a predominantly Hindu culture, but there is a sizeable Buddhist population as well. India also contains some of Buddhism’s most sacred sites, which attract millions of Buddhist pilgrims each year. Take the chance to teach your little ones about one of the world’s largest religions by giving them a tour of some of Buddhism’s most important destinations.

Where to go:

Bodhgaya: Take the time to visit the main temple and see the enormous Bodhi tree beneath which the Buddha reached enlightenment. The town is filled with monks and nuns from all Buddhist traditions, and there is no shortage of meditation courses and lotus peddlers.

Sarnath: Take a day trip from Varanasi to see Sarnath, where the Buddha first “turned the wheel of Dharma,” or gave his first teachings and an enlightened being on the Four Noble Truths. The monks from one temple recite these teachings every night in Palī, the precursor to Sanskrit, and the original language of the Buddha.

Kushinagar: Pay your respects to the Buddha at Kushinagar in Uttar Pradesh, where he passed away (or reached parinirvana) almost 2,500 years ago. A burial mound was erected over Buddha’s cremation site, and a collection of parinirvana temples stands nearby. Many Buddhist nations have built temples here, which will allow your family to compare different styles of Buddhist architecture.

 

Indian Music

Before there was Bollywood, there was Hindustani music, called Shastriya Sangit, which originated in northern India almost 700 years ago. Hindustani music branched off from Carnatic music, which many Indians believe came directly from deities like Saraswati, the goddess of music and knowledge. Look out for classical Indian instruments like tablas (a pair of small drums), sitars (a guitar-like instrument with a long neck and up to 21 strings), and sarods (another stringed instrument played with a coconut-shell pick). Don your sarees and kurtas and head out to groove to some authentic Indian tunes.

Where to go:

Pune: The most well-known Hindustani music festival called Gandharva Bhimsen Festival occurs once a year in Pune, outside Mumbai. The festival was started in 1953 and now occurs in December. This festival also includes dance performances and different styles of Indian music, including Carnatic music. It is believed that once a musician plays at this festival, he has cemented his place in the classical Indian music scene. Prices differ depending on which artists you would like to see, so check online for a detailed line-up and price information.

Jallandhar: The oldest music festival in India is called Harballabh Sangeet Sammelan, which began in 1875. The gathering is named after Baba Harballabh, who is a revered Indian musician. This festival is held during the end of December in the state of Punjab, near Pakistan. Harballabh Sangeet Sammelan is also completely free, funded primarily by grants and donations—so take your entire family and enjoy the music!

 

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